
This Was Not Our War:
Bosnian Women Reclaiming the Peace
Epilogue
The Courage to Hope
Greta: Why should I be afraid?
I never went to the cellar when there was shelling. Even in Auschwitz
I was confident. I don't know why. I'd lost everybody. But even
when my strength was gone, when I was nothing but bones, I still
didn't want to die.
Alenka: This is a country you have to love and hate at the same
time…. On one side such hope, and on the other side so much
hopelessness.
Nada: Things will get better. After all, they can't be worse. Do
you know what my name means in English? "Hope."
Kada: If nothing else, we can at least try to be sure that all
we experienced in Srebrenica isn't forgotten.
Swanee: Well, Amna, thank you for telling me all this.
Amna: I hope you make something happen with it.
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I have two confessions. First, I'm one of those Americans who paid
attention sporadically to the Balkan people over the past years.
When I had the time or the inclination, I focused on their plight
and gave them support. But most of the time I was an observer,
a spectator, a voyeur, curled up with a book, coffee, and cushions
as I watched war correspondents on TV or read through political
reports of the unfolding horror these twenty six women were encountering.